Friday, December 24

流星

12月15日凌晨
刚刚才考完第一张试卷..
还想和朋友出去陪陪她谈天的..
谁知...
竟然又要开始第二张试卷的温习...
没办法..
只好取消了咯..
去到nathan 家就开始讨论..
刚开始大家还很用工..
时间久了..
就开始变得懒散去了..
开始在nathan家里找乐子...
等待zy给我们“答案”
结果她累了..第二天才send回给我们..
过后我就和cw,ryn(nathan的同学),kyen去喝茶,吃lok lok..
差不多两点才回家..
回家后..
遇到kyen和cw骑脚车来我家..
我们就在门口外谈起天来..
听其他人说会有流星雨..
我就说了一句话:“我长那么大都没有看过一颗流星~~ ”
这一句刚说完.. 就有一颗流星在我面前落下....
我兴奋地大叫起来..
几乎把邻居们吵醒了...
我们过后还躺在路上看起了流星..
每看到一颗流星..
我都忍不住地兴奋大叫..
过后我们还走到了比较空旷的球场躺在那里看..
看到3点多..
一共看了22颗..
回到家冲凉后..
还被月和仪叫出去再次观看..
这次我只看到了3颗流星..
天渐渐亮了..
我们就回家去补补眠了..
流星..
只出现在那一瞬间..
在天空划下了一条光线就消失了..
不像星星那样一闪一闪地高高挂在天空..
抬头一望就看见..
流星可遇不可求..
我们不能常常看见流星..
只能在特定的季节才会看见..
除此之外..
不是每一个地方都能看见..
真的要很有机缘才能看见..
我真的很开心..
因为那么难的机缘竟然被我遇见..
还看了25颗的流星..
虽然流星只有刹那间的光芒..
但是带给人许愿并希望愿望会成真的美丽故事..
流星也让我理解到..
要好好珍惜自己身边的人..
不要让他好像流星般消失了..
到时就后悔莫及了...

Thursday, December 9

Wedding ceremony + dinner-ed

星期五和六..
我出席了两场喜宴..
主角是同一对新人..
只是一场是女家主办的..
另一场则是男家主办的...
形式大同小异..
只是在婚礼的敬茶仪式有点不同...
可能是地方习俗的差异...
这是我第一次做伴娘..
看起来伴娘好像很好当..
其实一点也不..
就像"大妗姐"称呼我为"新娘妹"一样..
是新娘的小妹...
新娘要你做什么就做什么..
新娘的随身物由你拿着..
所收到的红包也有你包管..
要派的红包也是由你包管着..
还要拿一把扇子为新娘扇凉...
裙摆也是由你来着..
到了男家也一样..
必须一直在新娘左右...
直到新人送入新房为止...
你的任务才算完成..
过后就是喜宴了..
还好两场喜宴上我都是坐着准备吃而已..
女家那场我是坐在主家席(新娘弟弟的女友而已哦???我也不知道为什么我会在哪..)
当晚还被人点名上台献丑(真的献丑了...点到的歌我都不会唱的..我只会林俊杰的歌啊)
只好硬着头皮唱完...还好有他陪我..
以为男家那里就不会有事了..
结果那个emcee竟然点伴郎伴娘上台合唱...
伴郎走过来问我要不要上去..
我几乎把头摇掉了都不要上去..
结果他只身上去唱了哦..
还好那时女方家人需要早离席(回怡保去)
我就逃过了等下需要上台献丑的一劫...
那伴郎在台上在"怨恨"地指着我并看着我离开...
哈哈..逃过一劫的我向他挥了挥手就离场了...
在回程的半路上我们停在休息站并继续我们的晚餐..(酒席上的食物真是"大"份)
回到他的家已经凌晨了...
收拾一下东西后..
我们就立刻倒头大睡...
因为已经好几天没有睡好了..
终于能好好地休息了..
当伴娘的经验我想就到此为止了..
v(^.^)v

Tuesday, December 7

与你相识了20年..
惊觉现在的你已经不是我所认识的你..
你变了..
变得爱慕虚荣..
当初..
说不需要汽车的人是你...
说你只需要摩托就足够了..
才过了一个学期..
你变了..
就因为我要intern的一个学期..
你无法用到汽车..
你竟然想到要家人买一辆汽车给你..
还说没有汽车不方便..
不方便什么呢?
只是一个学期而已..
当初你第一个学期没有汽车的时候也不是那样就熬过去了?
我说要车的时候你就说我爱慕虚荣..
现在你呢?
爱慕虚荣的是不是你呢?
我没有汽车只有摩托的时候是不是也熬了一年?
如果你真的想要另一辆车...
就自己想办法..
我的钱是需要存起来做未来之用的...

Friday, December 3

Wedding Dinner


Tonight i'll attend His sister's wedding dinner..
Again i have to face his relatives...
What i feel is very shy..
I dunno how to face them...
I'll be very quite when i meet strangers..
I know they are not strangers but His relatives...
But i feel very very shy and dunno what to do...
My reaction is just staying beside him and do nothing...
This is not the 1st time i attend the wedding dinner..
But this time is very different..
I'm the bride's maid...
During the ceremony,i'll be stay beside the bride..
And i'll sit in the VIP table during the dinner..
Few days ago, WY and i talk bout wedding dinner..
She asked me whether i have the urge to marry..
Of course,every girl's dream is having a great wedding ceremony..
Nice wedding photo taking..
Wearing Wedding Dresses..
Having the ceremony to show that u r belong to ur beloved..
And also show that u stepping into ur beloved's family..
Then u will continue ur life with him...
This is my dream too..
However, u need plan before u step into marriage..
U need to save money for the expenses..
And also manpower..
Before, wedding need to plan nicely and wisely..
So... 
Have a plan 1st..
Take time and everything will go smoothly...





Regards,
A girl dream of wedding 

Last Day of Y2S3

2/12/2010
A last day of my Y2S3 study life..
I suppose to end it in attending last lecture of the day..
But i ended it by staying in his house with my Japanese notes...
I skipped this week classes coz this is the last week of the study week...
Plus,the Barred list is out ...
So, no need to attend the classes anymore...
Today i woke up around 7 am...
Went to Market having breakfast with his family..
He told me that actually i no need to follow n i can continue to sleep...
Then he will buy the breakfast for me..
But i think i should wake up n having breakfast with them..
This called manner n i should follow their style..
I stay in his house since tuesday night..
1 of the reason  is i would like to spend more time to with him..
Becoz he will back to campus for his final year study when i having my holiday..
Another reason is i will be his sister's bride's maid during the wedding ceremony...
So i cannot skip it..
For the preparation of the buffet today..
I didn't help a lot coz i not expect in doing housework..
What i can i do is just help whatever i can..
The night was came..
Many relatives of his were appear...
I feel very shy n hide myself in the corner of the living hall..
His father said that i have to face it later...
And there was an uncle came n talk to me...
He was staying in the same area with me..
He knew me coz my grandpa's friend n i knew him too...
We chat for awhile bout my studies...
Then he left...
I still remind my seat at the corner of the living hall until the buffet was almost finish..
I saw him resting n chatting with his cousins..
So i joined him....
A very fun time with them...
Then relatives start leaving...
Have to clean up the mess...
N now...
He went supper...
While i'm blogging here with my mask...
2ml he have to prepare a lot of things i think coz the night is the wedding dinner..
Saturday will be wedding ceremony n another wedding dinner in penang...
Hope I'll have time to take picture with my dress~~
v(^.^)v
That's all for today...






Regards,
Wan Jie